At gay naturist gatherings, there's a different
set of values. Generally, gay naturists believe:
- That a penis is a wonderful
- If it's soft, that's OK.
- If it's hard, that's OK too.*
- One of the advantages of being physically
unclothed is that it helps us to be mentally
unclothed as well.
- That is, our sexual fantasies are no more
and no less shameful and embarrassing than are
our other thoughts and desires -- and that there
is a positive benefit to sharing
our fantasies with others.
At recent Gatherings, I've seen several
instances of these values in action -- sometimes in
surprising ways. I'd like to share two examples
- The case of the horizontal loincloth.
- The case of the lunchline stiffies.
The case of the horizontal loincloth
Take a look at the following photo of a guy
wearing nothing but a leather vest and a rabbit-fur
As you can see, the loincloth is horizontal.
That is not its normal position. It's sticking out
at a perfect 90-degree angle because the guy
wearing the loincloth has a raging hard-on.
He had it all night -- all during the party. He
got it when he bought the loincloth earlier in the
day. He was a little embarrassed by it, because he
still believed a bit in society's ideas about
hard-ons, and because he probably knew that some
hard-core gay nudists think it's wrong to ever
cover up a penis for any reason at a naked
I'll admit that even I
was a little bit embarrassed by it. At the same
time, I was fascinated. I was also in awe. If I had
such a revealing hard-on, would I be willing to
display it to everyone, letting them think what
they may about why I had it? Not just physically
naked, but mentally naked as well?
I'm not sure. I'd like to think so, but even I
am not sure.
Plus, he was very cute, and his hard-on made him
even more adorable in my eyes -- not only because I
find an erection is pleasing to look at but also
because he was generous enough to share it with all
of us. Of the 800 guys at the Gathering, I doubted
that I was anywhere near
the top of his list -- yet
here he was, letting me see his hard, literally
throbbing, dick and his secret fantasy at the same
And better yet, he let me photograph
And, better even than that, he let guys play
with it a little bit -- maybe even make
fun of it! The photo above shows a second
guy pressing down on the hard-on, and being amused
by how it bounced right back up.